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2008 Advice
Will My Salary Be Enough After A Move?

How Do I Tell My Kids I've Been Fired?

Non-Profits Or Govt Jobs?

Is Law Boring?

Should I Offer To Work For Free?

Interpersonal Skills Part 2: Body Language

Interpersonal Skills Part 1: Public Speaking

How To Develop Interpersonal Skills Part I

Motivating A Teenager

Can A "Career Changer" Find Happiness?

How Does an Artist Make Money?

Are There Medical Jobs With Minimum Training?

The Dental Drill

I'm About To Be Fired!

Counselor Vs. Busybody?

How Do I Get Into A Good College?

How Do I Pick The Right Career?

Do You Make Up These Questions?

Should I Drop Out Of School?

Adoption Law

Medical Questions Part II?

Medical Questions Part I?

How Do I Decide On A Graduate School??

How To Fix My Fear Of Public Speaking??

Hating A Job Vs. Hating A Career?

What do you think of online schools??

How do I Go From Mom Back to Lawyer?

Can I Support My Family And Go To School?

How Do I Find What's Best For Me?

How Do I Get Back In The Mainstream?

My Job Search Is Taking Too Long!

Is Fifty Too Old? Part II

Is Fifty Too Old? Part I

Preparing For A Career, Or A Change

2007 Advice
M.D. or Shorter Degree?

A Job In Mergers And Acquisitions

What To Do When You're Rejected?

Age Discrimination?

Dying For A Job In Sales

College Credit For Life Experience

Great Job vs. Family?

What Can I Do About Burnout?

Should I Get A "Second Class" Degree?

Am I Too Old For College?

How To Help Patients?

My Son Can't Get A Job - Part II

My Son Can't Get A Job - Part I

A Good Reason To Choose A Career...It's Fun

2006 Advice
Can An Introvert Become Assertive?

Retirement Is Boring!

I Am Considering Downward Mobility

Being A Healing Force At Work

Should I Become A Lawyer?

Are You Burned Out?

How can I win a fight with my boss?

Grades vs. Fun In College

I Loathe My General Manager

Questions That Make The Career Doctor Cranky

Dealing With A Boss That Acts As A Child

Do I Choose The Guy Or The Job?

Back-To-School at 54?

My Job Is Abusive

Students Need Career Preparation In College

Should I Do Work I Hate Just For The Money?

Did I Blow My First Job?

What Careers Make People Happy?

Should I Be Open About My LD?

My Boss Treats Us Like Children

Can I Get A College Degree Online?

Alternative Careers For A Medical Graduate

Going To College Without Drowning in Debt

Can I Go Back To My Old Employer?

How Can I Be Successful In Sales?

My Boss Treats Me Like A Child.

My Boyfriend Is Keeping Me From Working.

Can A Geeky Interest Lead To A Job?

How Do I Find A Part-Time Job?

HELP...I Hate Grad School!

I Made A Big Mistake At Work...Should I Tell?

Unexplained Gaps In My Resume

Before You Go To Medical School...

2005 Advice
Study What I Want or What Is Practical?

Love, Work And A Meaningful Retirement...

Must My English Be Perfect?

Phobias Are Very Cureable

Overcoming A Public Speaking Phobia


Succeeding Without Managing

Am I Too Old To Become A Doctor?

Help! I Am a Burned Out Teacher!

Working From Home

Healthy Per ing Artists

Asking A Manager For New Opportunities

Medical School Interviews

Totally Confused By Company Politics

Using An Old MBA

Finding a New Field

Dealing With A Narcissist

Careers For Parents With Kids At Home

Is It Worth The Stress?

Should I Try For My Ideal World?

I Am About To Turn 30 And I Feel I Wasted My Twenties

Do You Hate The Job - Or Do You Just Hate Change?

My Husband Is Furious Because I Quit

Burned Out By Being Too Nice?

How Do I Explain Why I Quit My Job?

My Family Versus My Career

I Feel Like A Failure.

What If I Don't Have The Aptitude For The Career I Want?

Should I Go Into Sales?

Why Aren't More Students Admitted to Medical School?

Tell Me About Veterinary Jobs.

How Do I Choose Between Conflicting Dreams?

I Made The Wrong Career Choice.

2004 Advice
The Business Of Medicine.

Choosing A Career In Counseling?

I'd Like To Play Golf All Of The Time...

Combining An Interest In Music And Counseling?

How Important Is A College Degree??

Using Sick Days for Vacation??

Should I Stay With A Program I Don't Like??

A Career With A Purpose?

Dealing With The Office Tattletale?

What Questions Should I Ask On An Interview??

Having Retirement Doldrums??

Career Versus kids??

Overcoming Learning Disabilities??

How do I go from being a Ski Bum to a Reporter??

Career Versus Kids??

Is it Wrong to do Well While Doing Good??

I Hate My New Job. What Should I Do?

Which Careers are the Most Satisfying?

Will a Move Be Bad for My Kids?

What's Hot in the Computer Field?

Thinking of Becoming a Doctor?

How to Stay Calm in a Job Interview?

Will Job Hunt Hurt Me At Work?

You Aren't Old, You're Experienced!

Am I Too Old for Law School?

What Does it Take to Be a Career Counselor?

High Pay vs. Satisfaction?

How Much Do Doctors Earn?

Networking Ideas

What If There Were No Limits?

Graduating, No Interviews!

Vocational Tests for High Schooler

Strong Interest Inventory

Making Transition to Job Market

Work as Teacher While Studying?

Should Intern Ask for Money?

Requirements for Psychology Program

Cussing in the Workplace

Affordable Career Counseling

Finding a Book Agent

The Career Doctor™

by Dr. Jacqueline Hornor Plumez

Looking for a first job? Thinking of changing careers? Facing a lay-off? The Career Doctor™ is a Larchmont psychologist specializing in career counseling. If you'd like to ask a question of your own, use the anonymous , and she might answer you here. Read more about the Career Doctor here. Contact in ation is here.

CAN A "HABITUAL CAREER CHANGER" FIND HAPPINESS?

Dear Career Doctor:

I am 30 and have been a habitual school program/career changer for 12 years. I attended five schools as an undergrad with innumerable majors before I graduated with a degree in "humanities." I chose that only because I still didn't know what I wanted to do at graduation.

I have started several graduate programs and finished none of them: accounting, landscape architecture, guidance counseling and cooking. I have had just as many jobs/careers since then. I have even managed to secure some very monetarily rewarding and stimulating jobs but I have disliked everything.

I was a Korean linguist in the Army and I LOVED the training but I hated the Army part. I would love to be a translator but it's not possible. I would have to move back to Korea, improve my skills, and then go to grad school for translation. Nothing like that is offered where I live and I can't move to another American city.

I know it sounds like I really need mental help but I just refuse to settle. I was unhappy in every relationship until I found the right person--now I really just need to find that perfect professional match.

Shannon B.

Dear Shannon:

When I work with a career changer -- or anyone, for that matter -- I always listen for what they say they "love." This is always vocationally significant.

You sound singularly enthusiastic about language study, so keep exploring how you can use your Korean or learn another language. After all, anyone who can learn an extremely difficult language like Korean has extraordinary linguistic skills. Here are some ideas:

1. Contact the Commerce Department in Washington, DC or your state Commerce Department to find out what companies are selling their products in Korea. They may be able to use your skills.

2. Consider becoming an ESL (English as a Second Language) teacher. While you don't have to learn a second language to be one, your comfort with foreign language and culture will be helpful.

3. Contact your local High School Principal and find out what languages are taught there. Ask if he/she is having trouble recruiting teachers for a particular language. (I hear this is true for Chinese in many places.) If that language interests you, consider learning it with the goal of teaching.

The Career Doctor

Dear John/Chad (with the medical degree from the Phillipines):
While I am not writing any answers to doctor questions for the next few months, explore becoming a science or biology teacher. Schools can't get enough good ones.

 

 

The Career Doctor™ is Larchmont psychologist and career counselor, Dr. Jacqueline Hornor Plumez.

Her office is at 90 Beechtree Drive in Larchmont, 914-834-1982.

For more in ation go to www.jacquelineplumez.com.

 

 

 

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