Terri Schiavo and Our Kids
by Dr. Ann L. Engelland
(March 30, 2005) Sadly, Terri Schiavo finally got her way.
We know that constant attention has been paid to Terri’s
tragic story by local and federal courts; constitutional
lawyers; pro-life advocates; end-of-life advocates; Jesse
Jackson; lawyers out to make a buck writing “advance
directives”; the Bush brothers intervening in someone
else’s family; the media hovering, and millions of
coffee drinkers around the country chatting over the issues
while sipping lattes.
In spite of the myriad questions this case has raised
for each of us privately and for our country collectively,
very little attention has been paid to the apparent fact
that Terri Schiavo suffered cardiac arrest at the
age of 26 because of an electrolyte imbalance, presumably
caused by a chronic eating disorder.
As I scan my list of patients for the day, I am anxiously
reminded that each one I see – college students home
on spring break, or middle-schoolers questioning their
pre-pubescent chubby tummies, or kids from across the street
at Mamaroneck High School - may be harboring and hiding
an eating disorder. I know it can take months to uncover
anorexia, maybe until the child faints or has missed a
period for a long stretch. I also know that there is often
a delay of years in the case of bulimia. Anyone
who works with eating disordered patients knows that moving
a family and patient past their anger, denial, fright,
and pain is an arduous task that can require a team of
skilled clinicians for successful treatment. And sometimes
patients are in a life or death situation.
I am always afraid that I will have missed the truth or
not given a patient license to divulge her terrible secret
and unhappiness. I fear that she will leave my office and
have a heart attack. Even if I am aware of the problem,
it’s often impossible to predict which patients have
done enough damage to their hearts or brains and may be
sitting on time bombs.
And so, if we are to believe ABC’s online report
of Terri’s junior and senior high school years, we
get a picture of a high school girl who was 5’3” and
weighed over 200 pounds until she lost some 65 pounds and
began to feel attractive and ultimately attracted her husband,
Michael. Also lurking in this picture is that Terri had,
according to Michael, “peculiar eating habits,” and
that friends noted she would often get up to go to the
bathroom after meals.
Chances are Terri would swing between restrictive phases,
eating very little and supposedly drinking lots of iced
tea to keep her weight down and then giving in to cravings
and eating a “normal” meal only to feel gross,
ashamed, fat, and overwhelmed until she would purge herself
by vomiting. The hard part to understand is that for people
with bulimia the purging brings such a relief from the
negative feelings and such a refreshing sense of control
over the food and body that it becomes an addictive behavior,
very hard to beat without help. That’s right. An
addiction. Not unlike gambling, alcohol, cigarettes, or
cutting. The behavior is viewed as an antidote to the problem.
Unfortunately it carries with it a huge price: osteoporosis,
endocrine disorders, heart disease, reproductive problems,
kidney failure, depression and suicide.
On many college campuses this disordered eating is seen
as normal. Some of my healthy patients describe not being
able to eat with their roommates because of the constant
commentary about their appetites, food choices, body size,
and calorie intake.
What can we do?
- We can educate ourselves about these problems.
- We can learn how to prevent eating disorders by starting
to value a range of body shapes and sizes.
- We can address emotional and family problems directly
and not use food as a tool.
- We can teach our children healthy ways of dealing with
the huge stressors in our lives.
- We can lobby to have eating disorders covered by insurance
policies. Of all the issues Terri Schiavo brought up
this week, The National Eating Disorders Association
(NEDA), chose to focus on this one. When patients lack
financial support (and the price tag can be as high as
a year of college for a year of treatment) it is no surprise
that the problem is underdiagnosed and inadequately addressed
So, in addition to alerting all Americans to the need
for a “living will” or “advance directives,” Terri
also reminds us that eating disorders are lethal diseases.
Amid the sorrow and the irony of thinking that Terri got
her way by finally starving to death, we can only hope
she will rest in peace.
Dr. Engelland has a practice in Mamaroneck devoted
to Adolescent Primary Care. She can be reached at
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